I really laugh when 'independent folks' think that they are very cool

 If they are really so cool, why most of them marry such man?

What is so cool being a free slave and sugar mummy at home? Are they really that smart to think that men who use them as free slave and sugar mummy really love them?It is so prideful to work as free slave? Isn't love about protecting and caring about others? What's the difference between mama leech and a mummy? Leech is clearly treating wife like his mum. Most of such men have zero ability to take care of themselves lmao. What is the point of getting a husband if he do nothing at home? Indirectly, such women are encouraging men to be like that-living with zero responsibility and empathy. A relationship without responsibility is just a shallow relationship. Most of such women eventually whine about being tired when they are the one emcouraging such behavior. Even worse when the hubby whine about the wife being ugly since she is too busy being free slave and sugar mummy so she got no time for herself lmao. Total disaster. Why only ask women to be independent anyway? Are men disabled or what? In fact, being too independent is a huge sign that she has huge fear of intimacy. Humans need to do lots of activity together and help each other to have a deep relationship. When you are doing everything by yourself, you are just keeping other people lazy at arm length. When I have close friends, I want them to rely on me. When they rely on me and vice versa, I feel loved and trusted. There is such phrase like this 'When you are loved, you feel protected. When you are loving someone, you become brave' (something like this if I am not mistaken) . Therefore, the ability to influence someone in a relationship is very important. What kind of influence do you have when you do everything by yourself? I once heard this funny story about this woman falling extremely sick when she is independent and don't want others to worry about her lmao-therefore she didn't ask anyone to take care of her. So what's the point of having relationship? So that people could enjoy relationship for free? Lel. Nobody can function all by themselves. Even billionaires need workers.Who would appreciate free slave anyway? People should stop buying everything that society says and think for themselves. Being stupid for love isn't true love-love in real life isn't like kdrama etc. Being stupid in love in real life mostly cost your whole life. Women aren't born to be men 's slave!!!!! 

regardless which race ,there are only a few types of men

.just talking according to my experiences of interacting with various men from various race

-the creep
guess i do not need to explain about this .they just like to harass people.


-the one who always reply late / ignore you no matter what

- the one who try hard to act cool
they think it is extremely cool to act like they aint interested in you despite asking you to be their gf / wife etc .they would never say something like 'i like you ,you are very pretty etc'

- the one who is weird
they tend to assume this and that about people .For example ,he might like you but he will never talk to you because he would assume that you will reject him / you are just a scammer etc.i have plenty of examples but i cannot remember now

-the prayer
they are usually 'very shy' and praying that girls whom they like would fall for them like crazy (although they put zero effort to be attractive ) and approach them first.

-the boring folk
they only know how to say 'hi,ok,i see'.they usually will ask nothing about you even if they approach you first

 in conclusion,most ppl are terrible regardless race

Receiving good stuffs need courage!

 

Have you ever heard people refusing to date someone who is awesome or having fear to join any competition despite the fact that it offers huge incentive? It is all caused by fear with anxiety.It is fear and anxiety of being rejected or simply having low self esteem which makes them think that they are not worthy to accept good stuffs in their life. Even if such people choose to accept the good stuffs, they often live in fear or uncertainty that their good stuffs will be snatched away immediately which is why some people choose to live a medicore life and be with a medicore partner. Mediocre life is filled with less risk which gives them false security. However, I can't say same thing for medicore partner since plenty of medicore people still cheat around since most people can still afford dating various medicore people . I heard various females claim that they dated ugly or broke men due to fear that he would cheat on her since they assumed that being below average means that they have very little chance to cheat on their partner.However,they end up terribly since their below average boyfriend still cheat on them. If you want good stuff, you must take risk and taking risk is about being courageous and facing your fear. If you take risk, you must be daring to make mistake and stop being a scaredy cat who is afraid to make mistake out dueto fear of being mocked by public. I guess this is why people say 'if you wanna sit on the throne you gotta bear the weight of the crown'. There is no free stuff in this world!