I really laugh when 'independent folks' think that they are very cool

 If they are really so cool, why most of them marry such man?

What is so cool being a free slave and sugar mummy at home? Are they really that smart to think that men who use them as free slave and sugar mummy really love them?It is so prideful to work as free slave? Isn't love about protecting and caring about others? What's the difference between mama leech and a mummy? Leech is clearly treating wife like his mum. Most of such men have zero ability to take care of themselves lmao. What is the point of getting a husband if he do nothing at home? Indirectly, such women are encouraging men to be like that-living with zero responsibility and empathy. A relationship without responsibility is just a shallow relationship. Most of such women eventually whine about being tired when they are the one emcouraging such behavior. Even worse when the hubby whine about the wife being ugly since she is too busy being free slave and sugar mummy so she got no time for herself lmao. Total disaster. Why only ask women to be independent anyway? Are men disabled or what? In fact, being too independent is a huge sign that she has huge fear of intimacy. Humans need to do lots of activity together and help each other to have a deep relationship. When you are doing everything by yourself, you are just keeping other people lazy at arm length. When I have close friends, I want them to rely on me. When they rely on me and vice versa, I feel loved and trusted. There is such phrase like this 'When you are loved, you feel protected. When you are loving someone, you become brave' (something like this if I am not mistaken) . Therefore, the ability to influence someone in a relationship is very important. What kind of influence do you have when you do everything by yourself? I once heard this funny story about this woman falling extremely sick when she is independent and don't want others to worry about her lmao-therefore she didn't ask anyone to take care of her. So what's the point of having relationship? So that people could enjoy relationship for free? Lel. Nobody can function all by themselves. Even billionaires need workers.Who would appreciate free slave anyway? People should stop buying everything that society says and think for themselves. Being stupid for love isn't true love-love in real life isn't like kdrama etc. Being stupid in love in real life mostly cost your whole life. Women aren't born to be men 's slave!!!!!