Wednesday, 26 January 2022

How to become an attractive man? (not really about being hansome.can be used even if ugly)

 

There are certain aspects about being an attractive man from look ,personality ,talent and mouth.
As a girl,i would briefly tell you on what i heard from other girls and my opinion on it.
1)look
You do not have to be very fashionable.All you need to do is looking clean and neat.It is embarassing to be with someone who is sloppy lol.You cannot expect your partner to look good while you choose to be sloppy lmao.That is being entitled lmao.Do remember to do skincare and hair care too.A man with nice hair and skin is very attractive.Also,your skin and hair reflects your health level.Image matters.Being clean is very important .
2)personality
-be talkative. Communication is very important
.Saying things out make life easier especially if it concerns about feeling since nobody is a mindreader.
-always reply on time.Nobody likes to be ignored.
-Do not try so hard to please someone since it looks cringy.
-do not be egoistic.Relationship is about being vulnerable .Being egoistic makes you become dishonest .
3)talent
Talented men are very attractive .Many girls think that men who are good in dancing and playing basketball are cool.In high school,famous guys are usually the one who is good in playing basketball.They are even more popular if they are good in studying.Other talent that will be good are dancing ,singing ,playing music instrument ,cooking etc
4)mouth
This is a golden tip if you are ugly.I know some guys who are popular despite being ugly thanks to their mouth.
I had a senior who is really ugly ,tall and extremely skinny but he is very influential in school because he is very funny,often talk on stage in confident manner and being friendly with everyone .My previous schoolmate liked him so much that she took his picture silently and printed it out on a huge paper ~it was really shocking.
Plenty of other men are casanova thanks to their sweet words.Women just love sweet men who say sweet stuffs.Do watch more korean drama and learn from there.



Thursday, 6 January 2022

STOP CONFUSING REGRETS WITH TRUE LOVE!

 lmao


I heard plenty of people say they cannot forget someone - it is usually like this 'I did not confess my love / he leave but I did not follow / she say she wants to break up but i did not disagree '

They keep thinking about the 'lover' all because of regrets .Then ,they like to act like they are Romeo / Juliet who has true love for someone lmao .Life has no 'if ' -It only has consequence .You have to appreciate every opportunity- what is so romantic about living in pain forever? Everyone have to move on.There will always be new people in life unless if you live in cave.

My so called pedophile ex had / has this habit of talking about his ex in Facebook all the time .I did not really know who is he talking about until he told me that he broke up with his 'internet girlfriend' after she asked for it before meeting her .All of this is caused by his cowardice - if he really loves her ,he should confess to her and ask her not to leave even if it hurts his ego .It is better to be hurt for short time instead of being in pain forever.Who knows if she might change her mind etc? Then he dragged me in this nonsense .Maybe i am just sadistic but usually i am very patient towards people whom i love including friends.I did everything to keep him beside me .I even moved to his school .After 5 years of endless pain ,i finally give up .Yes ,it hurts terribly but now I feel nothing anymore because there is no 'if' for me.Now he is just an ugly crazy guy for me .

I really have no feeling of being hurt towards anyone because I am patient .I only feel hurt towards one of my ex friend .I was moody one day - She tried to joke with me but i lashed out at her .I have huge regret towards her although i have no idea whether she loved me or not.I always wonder if we would still be together if I said sorry .Maybe we would have lots of fun if I said sorry .However ,life has no 'if ' and time cannot be turned back......:bigcatcry:

HELP ME ! I CANNOT STOP MYSELF!

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