Receiving good stuffs need courage!

 

Have you ever heard people refusing to date someone who is awesome or having fear to join any competition despite the fact that it offers huge incentive? It is all caused by fear with anxiety.It is fear and anxiety of being rejected or simply having low self esteem which makes them think that they are not worthy to accept good stuffs in their life. Even if such people choose to accept the good stuffs, they often live in fear or uncertainty that their good stuffs will be snatched away immediately which is why some people choose to live a medicore life and be with a medicore partner. Mediocre life is filled with less risk which gives them false security. However, I can't say same thing for medicore partner since plenty of medicore people still cheat around since most people can still afford dating various medicore people . I heard various females claim that they dated ugly or broke men due to fear that he would cheat on her since they assumed that being below average means that they have very little chance to cheat on their partner.However,they end up terribly since their below average boyfriend still cheat on them. If you want good stuff, you must take risk and taking risk is about being courageous and facing your fear. If you take risk, you must be daring to make mistake and stop being a scaredy cat who is afraid to make mistake out dueto fear of being mocked by public. I guess this is why people say 'if you wanna sit on the throne you gotta bear the weight of the crown'. There is no free stuff in this world!